Our third day in
Poland, with our jet lag over and our bearings set, we visited my grandmother's
ancestral town, Przeworsk. For this we
needed an actual guide; someone who could talk to locals in native-fluent Polish,
someone familiar with the context of my trip, the lay of the land, and where to
find parking. I found such a person
through the Emanuel Ringelblum Jewish Historical Institute in Warsaw.
I had googled my way
to the JHI; it occupies the same geographical footprint as the once (as you can
tell from old black and white photographs) Great Synagogue of Warsaw on Tlomackie
street, blown up with official German fanfare in 1943, right after the ghetto's liquidation. Today it's a
blue Met Life skyscraper, towering over north-south tram lines. Right next to it is the associated Jewish
Genealogy & Family Heritage Center, which occupies the related building
that survived; it had been the grand shul's library and appears in those same
black-and-white photographs, looking just the same, from the outside, as it does today.
Both institutions
are named after Emanuel Ringelblum because he, doomed to die in the Warsaw
Ghetto, succeeded in preserving the history of that mass murder by starvation
and final liquidation. He and his fellow
witnesses buried thousands of documents under wrecked ghetto buildings in metal boxes and three Tevye-style milk
cans. One set was found in 1946; another
in 1950; a third has never been found. A lot of the quotes appearing in the
Holocaust section of the new Polin Museum come from that Ringelblum Archive.
But I didn't
remember about Ringelblum till later. Still home and planning my trip, what I
saw on the JHI's web site gave me a shiver of recognition. The executive
director pictured there, Yale Reisner,
was someone I had known 45 years before; we had shared a seven-week USY
teen tour of Israel in 1970. He had been
the younger son of the Philadelphia rabbi-and-wife couple who had led that
trip. I had become good friends with his
older sister, and remembered him as a friendly younger brother. I also had visited Rabbi and Connie Reisner
and their kids after the trip, in Philly, and when they moved to Bersheva, the
year I lived there after college. Yale had been living in Warsaw for the past
20 years or so. That is how small the
Jewish world is, or at least the part interested in history and genealogy.
But the JHI web
site was somewhat out of date. Today Helise Lieberman heads the
organization. I contacted her via email;
we played master-level Jewish geography, we became Facebook friends, and on a
visit to Bersheva that she was making just after I'd introduced myself, she remembered
me to Yale's family, who did remember me.
Fate was coming along on my trip.
Helise hooked me
up with Anna Przybyszewska, the associate director of the genealogy center.
Anna took the information I'd been able to glean over the years at Jewishgen.org,
Yad VaShem and ancestry.com, and improved upon it quite a bit with research in
Geni (another genealogical site), archives in Polish, and others not available
to the general public. For example, she
drew me a family tree that started from my grandmother Esther's grandparents,
which revealed a couple more second- and third-cousin survivors living in
Israel as well as lost distant cousins.
One of the newly discovered survivors had drawn a whole list of lost family members himself, with
their fates, for Yad VaShem. Those survivors' documents and addresses dated all
the way back to the fifties, however, so finding these people's descendants may take quite a bit more
effort, assuming they're interested.
Anna P. also
found documents created in the wake of the war, by the organization responsible
for relocating and reuniting Jewish survivors -- the Centralnego
Komitetu Zydow w Polsce, or Central Committee of Polish Jews. These
documented the survival of people we knew. One was my mother's first cousin
Memel, born in Przemysl and hidden with his parents ("on the Aryan
side," the document says). But Memel's father -- my grandmother's brother
Meyer -- disappeared when, the story
goes, he went out to find food. The documents
showed an address in Przemysl, half an hour east of Przeworsk, where he and his mother had been
living in June 1946, before they made their way to France and finally New
York. (Today Memel/Michael is a retired
federal lawyer and grandfather of five living in Silver Springs.)
Anna also found
us the address of the tailor shop of my grandmother's first cousin Chaim, in
Tarnow, 90-100 minutes west of Przeworsk
on the same highway. And possible
relatives, other murdered people named Schopf, in nearby Kanczuga and Lancut
and other places.
Jakub and Me |
Jakub met us in the lobby of the Hotel Bristol at eight that morning, in jacket, shirt and jeans. He drove a comfortable van, parked just off the Rynek.
All Jakub's
clients, naturally, wanted to know the reason for his choice of career, and
most suspected at least some Jewish ancestry. He could verify none. His Jewish story, told while driving us east,
started with an essay he wrote in high school for a nationwide competition started
by Golda Tencer, today director of the Jewish Theater of Warsaw. Jakub won first place. The prize was a trip
to Israel. He was also in the first
group of exchange students in a Polish-Israeli exchange. He had both an affinity for Jews and few
illusions about the persistence of antiSemitism in Poland. In some cases, he said, it was fear of
contemporary Jews seeking ancestors' property, several generations after it had
been stolen by Nazis and given to Poles at firesale prices or simply as rewards.
But it was an attitude receding with each new generation.
It was also useful to know, as we did from reading, how thoroughly the Poles also saw themselves as victims of Nazism. They had lost three million of their own, as well as 20% of their clergy. (Just two weeks before we left on our trip, I had happened to be at the Holocaust Museum in Washington DC, where I was visiting my daughter. I saw a WW II-era film strip there of a couple, a Polish (non-Jewish!) man and a German woman, being paraded through town and officially humiliated for defiling the Aryan race with their illicit relationship. Of course, the extent of their punishment was having their heads shaved,being paraded with signs and perhaps public shunning. Nasty enough. But survivable. And on the third hand, a clear demonstration of how Poles were regarded by Germans. Plaques blaming "German Genociders" and destroyers are all over Poland.)
We had been
emailing back and forth for many weeks.
I've been told that the Nazis also stole Aryan looking Polish babies and brought them up in Germany lost forever to their parents.
ReplyDeleteGreat story! And I'm happy you had a chance to meet my good friend Jakub.
ReplyDeleteFascinating research into the extended family tree! So cool!
ReplyDeleteGreat work don't stop.
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